Well, thank you so much for that, it really helps to have confirmation on these types of questions. Alex Collier had a very insightful take on reincarnation, that resonated with me. He said if the ISBE has not made the decision to go to the light, to turn--around and what you will see is the Universe. He said if you want to go home, that you can ask to go home, and where ever, what ever dimension you came from, prior to your reincarnation on Earth, you will go there/home. I kinda like that a lot.
I am not sure I buy into this Karma thing, it is confusing/complicated and contradictory based on my limited knowledge.
One thing that I am really interested in, is the SOUL MATE concept. There is a lot of of comments about it. but I am not quite sure how it works. If we do have a SOUL MATE, which I hope is my wife, how do I reconnect with her after I pass over?
The Karmic-Law, when _accurately_ described, simply states : «Everything that you or your servants cause others to experience will also be experienced by you (including all collateral-effects).» Note that this applies to BOTH the «Positive» AND the «Negative» results; this is literally the «fairest» system that could possibly ever exist but all «Is-Beings» seem to have «forgotten» about its reality; and its application is primarily between «sentient» beings rather than insects although there is a bit of validity when it comes to treatment of animals but to a lesser-extent than with other «sentient» Is-Beings.
For all intents and purposes, yes, Is-Beings typically go back to their origins Post-Mortem, which is tied to the Resonance-Frequency of their Is-Being Vibration; this, how-ever, also partly depends on what they had managed to learn and do here whilst within the earth-life; if they've managed to learn actual truth and «turn away from their sins» (i.e. : stop being complicit to causing harm/suffering unto others) they may «rise» up a «level» or two; the Pure-Realm is not a realm that anybody gets to immediately Post-Mortem with the exceptions of those who've incarnated here directly from there; for most people it actually takes the equivalent of approximately 1 million earth-life-years to achieve; the ones who fail at it continue into a «downward-sliding oblivion» and who continue to «drop» down a «realm» or two from whence they came...
Alas, even if I claim to be the Messiah's Voluntary Successor, I do not expect that alone to be enough to convince anybody, especially if they continue to believe and insist that if it is not something that they can actually see with their own eyes or be proven via the scientific-institutions, before they consider the existence of either a whole entire existence where absolutely everybody lives in pure-bliss & happiness (heaven) due to absolutely all of the inhabitants being completely «sin-free» or the polar-opposite existence of pure-iniquity (hell) where all of the inhabitants are of a depravity level that constantly commit atrocities upon one another with nobody ever having a surcease; consider the state of what's been going on with Israel & Palestine & various other Middle-Eastern Wars, and, the men (or Is-Beings) whom are largely responsible for all of that; do you really wish to share your «home» universe with such Is-Beings ? Klaus Schwab or George Soros and their ilk ? The «Bad E.T.s» if you may; this universe is sort of like a «Melting Pot» where Is-Beings of multiple different realms inter-mingle & inter-act & inter-mix with the absolute vast majority coming from «lower» realms of consciousness; I only keep warning about it as much as I do because my knowledge of reality largely matches that of the very Messiah himself and, I am not going to give people a «False-Sense of Security» when both I and the very Messiah himself know that there are many Is-Beings who certainly «incarnate» up and down into just about every level of existence that exists between heaven & hell but never actually achieving the _real_ «heaven» that both I as his Voluntary Successor and the very Messiah himself have been trying to assist all «stuck» Is-Beings with their «way» towards the TRUE-Light; and, this «opportunity» (for the knowledge that we have which we bring literally directly from the Pure-Realm) typically only comes about once every million or so earth-life-equivalent years before the «doors» end up «closing» for access to the knowledge that allows one to know their way, the correct way, the one and only way to reach the Ultimate-Level (Ultimate-Peace for those whom are Pure-Peace Beings; they called him the «prince of peace» for good reason). Well, anyway, not to digress...
Re : Soul-Mates
That is something you (can) both agree to; if you wish to re-connect with your wife in the future, just make that agreement with her, something you can even talk to her about right now, even if she doesn't believe in these things, just as long as you make the agreement to re-unite, how-ever you choose to re-unite, you will most-certainly re-unite in the manner in which you agree upon to re-unite; for all intents and purposes, you do have the option to essentially be the «authors» of your story of existence, but, should you choose or decide that it will be in the form of another earth-life or just simply co-exist within the «spirit» realms, your «conscious-perception» of earth isn't quite the same whilst in spirit-form; and, discussions about what it would entail to re-incarnate together into the future would typically be a very deep and serious discussion that should take up several hours in order to be thorough; you're still going to be bound by the «rules» of the physical-limitations if you opt to go back into a physical-form after all, but, personally, were I to be in a similar situation as you, with what I know, I would simply try to educate everybody with what I know about Post-Mortem Existence (which I know is accurate... unlike what is typically taught by Priests & Ministers of Religions at Churches) and, rather than re-incarnating back into this universe, that, everyone follow me instead into much better universes of existence (particularly the Pure-Realm if at all possible), but, that is just a personal-preference of mine; certainly, if you have strong ties to family members living on earth whom you really wish to be with, even if you must re-incarnate for that purpose, you can even make that agreement with everybody, talk to them all, before you all depart the flesh, but, you also need to consider the «state» of this world, and, all of its various problems & political-upheavals; some Is-Beings do incarnate here for purposes of trying to «free» (and/or awaken) the «enslaved» sleeping masses zombie-population (or normies/NPCs/sheeple/etc.), then there was that story from the Chinese-Drama I mentioned, I think the two lovers were suffering a lot during their previous-existence as a result of the two opposing countries/kingdoms being at war with one another, for what-ever reason, and, that their re-incarnation choice as significant-members of each of the opposing factions/kingdoms was to try to get them to unify and stop being in so much conflict; they started out fighting each other of course, although the show was in Chinese (so you'd need to read the English sub-titles like I had to), with the idea/purpose of thinking that perhaps if they could connect the two warring kingdoms together, perhaps through some sort of marriage between the two, that they would be closer to achieving their inter-generational-goal that started out from way back in their previous-lives.
Once more, I am going to say that NOTHING happens by «accident», even if it LOOKS like one; if you wish to re-connect with your still-living wife whilst you are in a post-mortem existence, that is typically done in the form of communicating to her during her sleep where she may remember it in the form of having had a «dream» with your presence, but, for her to actually be able to remember that dream in detail, remember, this physical-world still has its physical-limitations & «rules» of existence so-to-speak, she will need to be in the habit of meditating, especially right before going to sleep (deep-breathing all the way in through the nose, slow-as-naturally possible but not forced speed breaths, followed by exhaling all the way out through the mouth, body as completely as relaxed as possible, aim for a minimum of half-hour-sessions if possible, although she can start at only a few minutes & work her way up as her ability to «not get distracted» by «random thoughts» increases), for purposes of maximising the chances that she'll be able to actually remember the details of her dream-state encounter with you; you can choose a day of significance/importance for the both of you that she will remember and can practice meditation up to and during that very day/night, although this is not the only method, this is considered to be amongst the more reliable methods so as to not «frighten» the still «living» with any kind of «haunting» (how-ever brief) or apparition or other such para-normal phenomenon that most people typically do not experience; like I said, this is a discussion you will just need to have with her, and, get her mentally prepared, something which would typically take several hours in order to be able to cover all of the necessary details; you have plentiful more knowledge about Post-Mortem Existence than most people, unlike those who end up «stuck» in the Post-Mortem state who seem to «linger around» on earth... simply because they are bewildered and literally have «no idea what else to do» (nobody ever taught them about the «reality» of the after-life after all).
I don't think there should be any (serious) issues if you just talk to her and decide and agree upon how you wish to re-connect or be able to re-connect, but, even with knowledge of the after-life, a widow will still «mourn» and there are indeed cases that I am aware of where the Post-Mortem Husband made it clear in some way that he was still «alive» (for as much as you can be «alive» in a Post-Mortem state to the perceptions of this world anyway) and doing well, I don't know, perhaps you might have some sort of photo somewhere that means a lot, that you can ask her to keep away somewhere, with messages that you write pre-death, locked, that, should it be possible, particularly if or when she is at an hour of when she needs the most emotional-support, you will figure out a way to «unlock» that message which she promises not to open, perhaps to even forget that it exists, which then «unlocks mysteriously» in order to remind her of that promise you made with each other when you were still alive, providing her with yet another «special-experience» that could have come from nobody else that nobody else could have known about and that nobody else would have found and unlocked other than you; anyway, I just throwing out some «random» examples & scenarios of things you can try, agree upon, what-ever you find to be meaningful, deepening those bonds to become more than just Soul-Mates or Twin-Flames. The decisions are ultimately up to you how you wish to go about it and field-test the various possibilities; with that, I will end my post here, mentioning that, statistically speaking, only a very small percentage of Is-Beings in existence participate in Romantic-Partnerships (perhaps it may at least partly explain why there are more single people than married people in the world even to the point where large segments of society now refer to Valentine's Day as Single's Day; what a world we live in).