Parts of this seems like you are conflating a(n) OOBE with being the same as an NDE.
The first time I experienced something similar to an NDE, I was intentionally trying to leave my physical-body, not as a suicide, but, because I was a two-year-old who realised that these weren't good earth-life-parents, and, I wanted to have no part of them; I was just trying to leave as an Is-Being.
The first time I experienced an OOBE was during a meditation-time as I was falling asleep; the first thought that came to mind, considering that I was conscious of the fact that my physical-body was sleeping in a dorm room, was basically : «OMG ! Did I just die or something!?»
For the duration of that first-time OOBE, I seemed to have lightning-fast speed-and-reflexes, like a hyper-ninja of sorts and was dodging multiple attacks of this tentacle-type space-monster or whatever it was; back then, I knew far less about psychic-phenomena and the «spirit-world» than I do now, and, what can I but say; I believe that you need a STRONG MIND to be able to over-come Spirit-Traps.
The basis of this is in the combination of when I came to a past conclusion that «faith» applies primarily to the spirit-world, rather than the physical-world, and, ANY amount of «doubt» becomes «fatal» to your ability to do things like «move mountains» or even «split mountains in two» just as the very Messiah himself talked about as a metaphorical-reference if the writings about him in that manipulated by religious-leaders book is to be believed; I believe you can even DESTROY those «Death-Traps» if your MIND is STRONG ENOUGH. And we can all even (potentially) co-operate together on this...
Consider how the effect(s) seem(s) to be amplified when groups of people meditate together; studies have also been done about how groups of people who pray together regularly seem to be able to invoke significant-effects according to the research of Dr. Dean Radin; Is-Beings whom are willing to co-operate for everyone's «spiritual-benefit» should also be a powerful-influence... probably !
P.S. : «others'» in English-language grammar when referring to possessive-form in the plural.